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Step 2 of 4 · Toddler Tantrums: Respond, Don't Escalate

Name feeling, hold limit

Name feeling, hold limit — step 2 of 4 in Toddler Tantrums: Respond, Don't Escalate. 'You're mad. We can't have candy before lunch.' Repeat once. Don't debate. Lower your body to their eye level if safe.

Calm voice is harder than it sounds — breathe first.
Calm voice is harder than it sounds — breathe first.

Free parenting & family tip: Name feeling, hold limit (step 2 of 4 from "Toddler Tantrums: Respond, Don't Escalate").

'You're mad. We can't have candy before lunch.' Repeat once. Don't debate. Lower your body to their eye level if safe.

If hitting: block gently, 'I won't let you hit.' Move away from breakables.

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