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Good match vs not for me

Good match vs not for me — step 5 of 6 in First Dates: Safety, Boundaries, and Leaving Well. Interested: 'I had a good time — want to do this again next week?' Not interested: 'Nice meeting you — I don't feel a romantic match, but I…

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Free relationships & wellbeing tip: Good match vs not for me (step 5 of 6 from "First Dates: Safety, Boundaries, and Leaving Well").

Interested: 'I had a good time — want to do this again next week?' Not interested: 'Nice meeting you — I don't feel a romantic match, but I wish you well.' Short. No therapy session.

Do not go home with them on date one because it is 'easier.' Easier tonight is complicated tomorrow.

Pro tip: Walk to your own ride. Hug or handshake — your choice. No pressure for more.

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