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Step 5 of 8 · Dating Confidence: Meet People You're Attracted To

Start with context, not body comments

Start with context, not body comments — step 5 of 8 in Dating Confidence: Meet People You're Attracted To. Good: comment on shared situation, ask opinion, joke about the queue. Avoid: appearance ratings, negging, touching without rapport.

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Free relationships & wellbeing tip: Start with context, not body comments (step 5 of 8 from "Dating Confidence: Meet People You're Attracted To").

Good: comment on shared situation, ask opinion, joke about the queue. Avoid: appearance ratings, negging, touching without rapport.

Listen more than talk first exchange. Remember one detail they said — follow up later.

Pro tip: If they give one-word answers and turn away, stop. That is not a challenge.

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