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What to do if you are not sleepy at bedtime
What to do if you are not sleepy at bedtime — step 2 of 11 in Sleep Better Tonight Without Supplements. For the first 3–5 nights of a new bedtime, you may not feel tired at 10:30. Go to bed anyway. Lie there with the lights off.
Free everyday life tip: What to do if you are not sleepy at bedtime (step 2 of 11 from "Sleep Better Tonight Without Supplements").
For the first 3–5 nights of a new bedtime, you may not feel tired at 10:30. Go to bed anyway. Lie there with the lights off. Do not check the clock — turn it away from you. Your body is recalibrating its melatonin release schedule, which takes about a week. Forcing yourself into bed at the right time, even without immediate sleep, is what shifts the rhythm.
If after 20 minutes you are still wide awake and restless, get up. Go to a different room, sit in dim light, and read a boring book (an instruction manual, a dense history book — nothing gripping). When you feel drowsy, return to bed. This is called stimulus control: your bed should be associated with sleep, not with lying awake frustrated. Within a week, your brain will start producing melatonin at 10:15 PM because it expects sleep at 10:30.
You'll need
- Bedtime chosen based on wake time minus 8 hours
- Same time set for all 7 days
- Bedtime alarm set 30 minutes before
- Clock turned away from bed
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