Step 5 of 11 · Pick a Gift They'll Actually Use
Mine their past gifts for patterns
Mine their past gifts for patterns — step 5 of 11 in Pick a Gift They'll Actually Use. Look at what they kept visible. Photos on the wall, mug on the desk, jacket worn weekly — kept means valued.

Free gifts & giving tip: Mine their past gifts for patterns (step 5 of 11 from "Pick a Gift They'll Actually Use").
Look at what they kept visible. Photos on the wall, mug on the desk, jacket worn weekly — kept means valued. Gifts in a closet mean category miss, not ungratefulness.
If they display handmade items, lean experiential or personal. If they display useful gadgets, upgrade the ones they use. If they display nothing, assume they prefer consumables or experiences and hate dusting. Past behavior beats wish lists.
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